Love and sex are not the same thing but the colonialist loves to manipulate us that its the same thing. Love is a natural instinct, it makes you feel warm and fuzzy,protected and secure, bigger than life and makes you feel welcome in town.

When we are loving and being loved a sense of well-being permeates our entire existence.

Love makes us feel totally accepted, totally fulfilled. Love allows us to experience one another at the deepest level of our identity.

When we experience love in its fullest and purest-form, we want to experience it again and again. In fact this is what we look for in and expect from our sexual quickies!

Sexual activity (kutombana or Kudinya) is a perfectly natural and normal expression of who we as human beings-its a human right. We need not make excuses about our desire to experience ourselves sexually.

Our sexual experiences are opportunities to abandon ourselves, our covering masks. A sexual encounter is a powerful experience in which bodies can share pleasures with or without the benefit of intimacy. Ever wondered why they're so many one-night-stands in the world?? Because sex feels good and we often mistake it for giving and receiving love. We lie to ourselves that we were in love, and that's why we did it.

In love there is a total acceptance of self, and a willingness to give of self without an expectation of receiving anything in return. When you love, you are not afraid to share the truth of who you are, and you accept the truth of others without judgement. Love feels good because it is good, not because of what you do with you fingers and tongues, but because of who you are.

Until today, you might have thought that your sexual experiences and conquest were true expressions of love. Just for today, devote yourself to giving and receiving the intimacy of love, without physical contact.

Uganda Fashion and Uganda Beauty

African images and stories are so diverse, that you're treated on them like some food menu.

Having been depressed by the negative images of suffering fellow Africans -

that Europeans enjoy feeding to their gullible audience, so they can solicit donations from them to re-colonise our

people using food bowls, etc.; in Uganda, Somalia, DR Congo, of those brothers and sisters drowning while crossing to

Europe to be treated like scum,etc. You sometimes need to change the menu/story [re-charge]

knowing well what you staple food is- that of telling the Truth about Social Injustices!

Is the black Man becoming extinct or black women are just making an excuse to give some to the white man?

Ehh, think of all those wars in Africa since 1990 to 2008, Millions have died and the majority were men.

Are black girls going out of tune because the black man doesn't want to fuck them but preffer to love them?

Is the black man too demanding and wants something softer and gentle and nice like hugs, kisses and being sensual?

Most women can't remember what it's like being good anymore, and they're getting away with it.

Being dumped by one man should not make you hate Man!

There are six Billion people on this planet and one of them has got to fancy you.

So stop thinking that every-man that checks you out is there to dump you. Everyone gets dumped.

Even Madonna, Naomi campbell, etc gets dumped.

If your neighbors are having sex every-night and you're spending every night lying awake until 3 a.m,

waiting for their bedspring to shut up, then you gonna need some help now.

Hey girl, remember that there's strength in numbers. If it's two of them against you,

you can end up feeling outnumbered and intimidated. They'll be utterly wrapped up in their passion and won't give

you some or even bother to ask you to join-in. Sister, just sleep with him and the score will be game draw.

Our Trend spotters have been around the world looking for African Runway trends.

They all say that the African woman no longer thinks of how big she can go in fashion but how

far she can go to make a fashion statement.

To Be Continued!!

Multiparty politics in Uganda will continue to be a bad smell because the tyrant has rendered the power of the ballot ineffective, while his Personal Doctor Kizza Besigye has found it easier to construct a new party, the party of the people's anger than to rise within the circles[NRM Criminal cartel] and head it. Fellow Ugandans, Why did it take long for Kizza Besigye to throw conscience to the devil, when a simple woman like Alice Lakwena could see the Devil in Museveni?



When Uganda was sleeping in Bed with Tyrant Museveni; Museveni's Political commissar Kizza Besigye, manufactured a negative campaign against Mama Alice Lakwena as some deluded christian fundamentalist with an intent to rule uganda by the Holly spirit. Still, Lakwena had a good judgement about Museveni than his personal Doctor and friend did.
Fellow Ugandans, would you want a person with a poor judgement, to be your next President? Think about it!!!!

Some Ugandan girls have been asking me, "Ehh jo, how do you handle being dumped by a man, some advice would be much appreciated." I get loads of these type of request.. as if I work in pussy!



Okey this is the deal; my minimal advice will help you to get back in the saddle. I know, ideally, you'll be sitting there thinking that you're a sophisticated, modern, ugandan woman who understands that life isn't a bed of roses and not all love is requited.



Have you been done by a Ugandan Boy?
Because it's rare to find one who doesn't dump.
Most can't even bother to mention that your loving relationship has ended.
They kinda of disappear leaving your matoke brains to figure it out.
You call his Mobilo and he doesn't pick up. You leave a nice friendly message to which any descent Ugandan, normal man would respond by calling you back that evening and the Stupid Kampala boy doesn't call either!

To Be continued!

My career in uganda has been; Uganda fashion,uganda art,uganda news,uganda women,uganda media,uganda today,uganda blog, and uganda photo.

Its not everyday that we spend time with a Congolese beautiful sister from Rutshuru, in diaspora [uganda] as most sisters are either scattered in refugee camps around the great lakes region, experiencing discrimination and missery from fellow africans who are too selfish to look beyond their little tribes and small clans.

Discrimination has also found its way into the Rutshuru humor: Two Congolese sisters are gossiping with their mother. The first is complaining that her Hutu husband only has intercourse with her in the missionary position, and the second is complaining about her Tutsi husband who only has intercourse doggy-style.The Mother sighs and says, “God have mercy on your father. He never discriminated against missionary position or doggy-style.”

Uganda today is here!!!

New media and Uganda Coming soon!!!!!!!

Most Ugandans in a relationship, don't know how to put in love. Both old and young think that a relationship is all about free sex anytime and a free meal-ticket. This sort of mindset is very deep-rooted and unhealthy as society has come to see it as the norm.

Don't rush into saying "I love you!" Take the time to realise what it is that you're saying; that it means something. Unless you can feel like this is a promise, that you will feel like this for the rest of your life, then don't say it!



Make sure you trust, admire, and respect the person you are with. Can you see being with him or her forever? Can you really talk to each other? About anything? Can you be honest with and support each other?


Do you have meaningful conversations?Do you mean something to each other?



Is the relationship exclusive[just fuckmates], serious, long-term, mature, meaningful, loving, trustful, truthful, respectful, and so on? If the answer is yes, then you may be heading towards love.


Take the physical aspect of the relationship slowly as well. This will give you time to develop other aspects of your relationship. Like the verbal, psychological, mental, emotional, affectionate, and other kinds of intimacy / closeness that has nothing to do with the physical stuff.



Don't let your life completely revolve around them. Your partner will find it sexy that you have other priorities. It's a sign of self-respect.Connect/bond - on a deeper level (than physical, etc.) with one another - let there be time for the emotional, psychological, mental, and verbal (etc.) intimacy or closeness to grow, expand, and develop (etc).

Could anybody touch a sun's ray?Long ago..I was thinking about the day, a heart beating told me that I am in love...Untill i met him,I was playing but now he Drives me crazy and I can't do anything...I am a cowardly,you think...Are the ilussions those which made me be like this...?

Just few seconds..and I've found the true..An unbearable true,that one which rememberedMe that all must change,it should be different...All my fears won't let me be happy...but

Born and raised in Kabale, Don't you love the freshness of kabale..I can forget that I suffered many times, Cause I have wanted something unfeasable;Anything that could come true...Nobobdy told me that all was such a dream..and my hope

Grew,grew strong,untillIt started to do me a bad turn and I became a transient...my happiness became that Ray I could not touch..and now...Like u..I am afraid...